For women over 50 navigating what comes next, relationships are part of the midlife purpose journey. Somewhere between carpools, careers, and raising kids, a lot ofcouples quietly drift from partners… to co-managers of life. In this episode, we’re talking about how to find your way back. We dive into the research behind why so many marriages lose their spark in this stage and more importantly, what actually helps couples reconnect. From shifting your mindset back to couplehood (not just famil...

For women over 50 finding happiness does not just fall into your lap, we must cultivate it by creating small shifts in our day. In our journey for midlife purpose we have to be intentional about how we construct our day to help find the "glimmers" that make each day a little more magical. This week we dive into the science behind what we can do to "microdose" some happiness into each day. Not the big, life-changing kind, but the little bursts of joy that can turn an ordinary Tuesday into someth...

Part of searching for midlife purpose is understanding what is holding you back. Stepping outside your comfort zone sounds great in theory… until you actually have to do it.In this episode, we dive into why pushing ourselves beyond what feels safe and familiar is so important for growth and why it can feel so uncomfortable in the moment. We talk about the times in our lives when we took the leap, the times we wish we had, and how those decisions shaped who we are today.And because we believe yo...

Midlife women are looking for some peace...bring on...knitting. Mahjong. Bird watching. Baking.Yes , we said it. The “granny hobbies” are having a full-blown renaissance with women over 50… and we are completely here for it.In this episode, we dive into why the hobbies we once rolled our eyes at are suddenly the exact medicine we didn’t know we needed. From the rhythm of knitting needles to the strategy of mahjong, from early morning bird walks to losing yourself in a perfect loaf of sourdough, ...

In this episode, we dive into what it really takes to restart your career, launch a brand new one or completely pivot and become the entrepreneur who’s been living rent-free in your head. We interview one of our besties who just reinvented herself professionally and she gets honest about it all. The anxieties and the motivators. The voice that says, “Who do you think you are?” — and the louder one that says,“Why not me?” Because sometimes the scariest move… is also the most defining. If you’re...

What happens when you sit down with women who are further down the road—the ones who have already livedthrough the chapters we’re just entering? In this episode, we ask them to get honest about their biggest regrets, the risks they wish they’d taken, and the things that mattered so much more than they expected—and the ones that matteredless than they thought. They share hard-earned lessons about love, marriage, friendship, ambition, motherhood, aging, reinvention, and what they wish they could t...

Botox, peptides, red light, supplements, serums, lasers… it’s a lot. In this episode of Before Boca, we wade into the overwhelming (and often contradictory) world of anti-aging and wellness for women—and try to separate real information from very expensive noise. And yes—we get personal. We share what we’ve done, what we haven’t, and what we might be willing to try next (no secrets, no shame). Consider this your permission slip to stop chasing every fountain and start trusting your own version...

The kids may be gone but a midlife woman's need to nurture never disappears. In this episode, we stepped away from our usual routines and into something unexpectedly grounding: fostering a dog for the day and spending time at a horse barn. What started as a simple experiment turned into a powerful reminder of how giving back—and being around animals—has a way of recalibrating everything. We talk about why helping others (and four-legged friends) shifts perspective, lowers stress, and pulls us ...

In this episode, we get into the mantras we are trying to live by. Not the polished quotes, the real internal commentary. The thoughts on repeat that shape how we (try) to make decisions, set boundaries, parent, and react. We talk about the phrases guiding us right now, the ones we want to add to our repertoire, and the ones we want to pass on to our kids. Think of these as our North Star. Not perfection, direction. The quiet rules we follow when no one is listening. Some are grounding, some ar...

This week on Before Boca, we gave ourselves a challenge thatsounded simple… and turned out to be wildly humbling: no complaining and no criticizing for an entire week. 😬 Spoiler alert: it was harder than we expected — and we were way less successful than we thought we’d be. From catching ourselves mid-eye roll to realizing just how automatic our negativity can be, we break down the moments we failed, the tiny wins we celebrated, and the surprisingly powerfulinsights we uncovered along the way. ...

You know that feeling when your to-do list is longer than your patience?Yep. That’s overwhelm. And in this episode, we’re diving headfirst into it. We unpack what actually makes us feel overwhelmed (spoiler: it’s not just our calendars), how it shows up in our bodies and moods, and the very predictable ways we usually try to cope (hello, doom-scrolling and busying ourselves into exhaustion). Then…we decided to shake things up. This week we experimented with three very different interventions:...

Calling all empty nesters (and those about to be). Life is fine—but your calendar has more white space, the noise has quieted, and somehow everything feels a little… flat. In our premiere episode of Before Boca, we dive into that sneaky midlife boredom that shows up without warning—and usually without a plan. We unpack what boredom actually looks like in this season of life, how we sometimes make it worse without realizing it, and why this exact feeling nudged us to start a podcast in the first...